by Ailsa Tessier
We know it as Foyer at Nativity, but where did this name come from? We understand that the idea of foyer gatherings began after the bombing of Coventry Cathedral during World War II. The cathedral’s Provost made a commitment to not seek revenge, but to strive for forgiveness and reconciliation with those responsible. Out of that commitment came community meetings, where people worked together to find common ground. There is much more to the history, if you wish to know more.
Many church communities have their own version of Foyer — they call it dinner group, or supper club, or something similar. Here’s how we do it at Nativity. Signing up means you’d be part of a group of about six people (adults only), assembled to try and mix new parishioners with others. You meet in each other’s homes about once a month for a three-month cycle. Each couple/single takes a turn at hosting a meal in the style of your own household. Each group decides how they’d like to get together — usually it’s in someone’s home, but many groups have met at a restaurant, or ordered takeout. We’ve been in Foyer groups where the dinner was appetizers and dessert; others have served pizza or soup, or ribs on the grill. The whole idea is simply to get together and get to know some of your fellow parishioners.
It couldn’t be easier! Some of us have been in Foyer groups at Nativity for 30 years — it’s the best way to get to know your fellow parishioners and make new friends. Sign up, give it a try, and if you have any questions about Foyer, get in touch with me.