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Outreach Social Justice

How Do We Make a Difference?

When does Christianity make the news?  Is it sadly too often in ways that do not feel Christlike?  In ways that feel small and judgmental and unkind?  Do you ever wish that the way you have experienced Christ and his church could make more of an impact on what decisions our leaders and our communities make, that those could be a bigger part of the discussion?

One Wake hopes to fill that space.  One Wake is an organization that Nativity is considering joining as a parish initiative.  They are an organization of 40+ faith communities in Wake County that believe making systemic change to care for our neighbors is worth banding together for.  Not only that, they are part of national network of similar organizations working for similar changes – the North Carolina IAF network includes One Wake, Durham CAN, the Orange County Justice United, the Forsyth Multiracial project, and the NC Congress of Latino Organizations.  In each region, they are assessing what our faiths are calling us to do so that every community is set up to thrive!

The focus of One Wake right now is on Affordable Housing and Educational Opportunities –  a push-pull effort to help low income people have a place in our county.  While there have been real wins in areas like Cary, One Wake is now embarking on their Homeowners Assistance Campaign hoping to convince the Raleigh City Council to develop a subsidy program for low income residents that are being priced out of their own neighborhoods due to property taxes, especially in Southeast Raleigh that has historically been underfunded by the city and county.  Last week, at their quarterly meeting, a resident of Southeast Raleigh described losing her house and losing her community . . . a community that had supported the African American residents for decades when the city did not.  That they are losing that community now is heartbreaking. 

One Wake has organized a meeting with Raleigh City Council members and candidates at St. Ambrose Episcopal Church on October 6th at 7:30pm to discuss One Wake’s affordable housing proposal and gain commitments from the council members.  It is expected that five hundred One Wake members will attend . . . including several of us from Nativity.  We’d love for others to join us!  We are excited to be part of faith communities speaking up for initiatives that care for our neighbors . . . as well as just seeing how One Wake works!

Register here, if you’re interested.

There is a financial component of becoming a member of One Wake, and you will hear more about that as part of this fall’s Stewardship campaign.  For now, please consider the work that these folks are doing, and pray for wisdom and the open hearts of the city’s leadership.  And if you want to join us on October 6 at the Raleigh City Council Assembly, let Becky Showalter know!

Nativity’s One Wake Initiative Steering Committee (Tentative)

Becky Showalter, Roy Immelman, Emily Jividien, Pete Crow, Anne Stokes

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Outreach

Homework Haven

There are students in our neighborhood schools whose day starts before sunrise, riding a bus 45 minutes to Leesville Elementary. When school is out, it’s another 45 minute ride home. These children live in the Washington Terrace Community, in southeast Raleigh. Washington Terrace provides a lower cost housing opportunity for indigent families, predominately African American. There are many single moms, aunts and grandparents raising the kids, as many do not have reliable fathers, or father-figures, in their life. Our Pride Packs program supports many of these households with healthy food and beverages.

Each day, many of these children go home to an empty apartment, as the adult(s) are still at work. It’s very likely homework is not foremost on their minds. Opportunities for mischief, or worse, abound in this scenario. This is where Nativity can make a difference! An amazing program called Homework Haven has quietly been providing tutors and mentors to this community several years. After school, Haven kids go straight to the community center, where they are greeted by volunteers with snacks. Once settled, we work together on homework or reading assignments. Due to home conditions, this is often the only true homework experience most of these kids may know. I said ‘we’ because I volunteered with the Haven for several years until the pandemic struck. Of all the volunteer opportunities I have done, this was the most rewarding. You witness a child’s ability to learn, and their confidence, grow right before you.

There are many ways you can help. The Haven wants to provide each child all the school supplies Leesville asks each student to furnish. The list is lengthy but includes the following items:

Book Bags (no wheels)
Packs of Sticky notes                                           
Child size headphones (no earbuds, not Bluetooth)
Dry erase markers
Boxes of crayons (24 count)                                     
Washable markers
Glue Sticks                                                                 
Yellow highlighter markers
Pencil boxes                                                           
Pink Erasers  
#2 pencils (Ticonderoga, no mechanical pencils)     
Cap erasers
Pencil sharpeners                                                     
Rounded edge scissors
Marbled Composition notebooks                             
Donations for 10 Scholastic News subscriptions at $8/subscription            Wide rule spiral notebooks (any color)                           
Boxes of quart and gallon size Ziplock bags         
1, 2 and 3-inch binders
Plastic folders with clasps                                     
Colored Pencils (blue, green, yellow, orange, purple)
Pocket folders                                                       
Facial Tissues
Packages of Baby Wipes                                       
Page Protectors
Notebook paper
Reusable Water bottles

Consider donating money for their snacks – most of the kids have not eaten since before noon, and dinner may be an hour (or longer) away. I hope you are inspired to help. There is a donations link on the
website, and boxes are in the Narthex and the Estill House foyer for school supply donations. Thank you for your kindness and willingness to help; your generosity is helping create a brighter (literally & figuratively) future for all.

Matt Chytka

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Outreach Social Justice

A Letter to Parents

Dear Nativity Parents,
As the coordinator of Nativity’s Peace Library, I want to personally reach out to you about this new ministry we have begun at Nativity, especially for your children. These books have been selected to focus on Nativity’s core values of welcome and inclusion and to celebrate diversity among God’s people. Many of these are award-winning books that have been highly recommended by Quail Ridge Books. It is our hope to provide our young people and their families with tools to help them better understand
our history and our diversity as we seek to continue God’s call for us to love one another.
If you have not seen our website with a listing of all our current books, please click here. Scroll to the bottom of the page.
As we prepare future programming and usage of this library, we would greatly appreciate your input.
• Would you be interested in writing some of the monthly book reviews? (This involves a brief review of the book with three-five questions; a format for writing these would be sent to you.)
• The Peace Library Team has been asked to lead a book reading and possible activity once a month during Sunday School time. Would you be interested in helping with this?

Would your child or youth be interested in providing their own review of any of these books? It can be typed, handwritten, a drawing or even a video. We have a few questions we can provide as prompts.
• We are looking at possible parish outings relating to some of the books, such as a trip to the Greensboro International Civil Rights Museum. Do you have other ideas for activities around the sharing of these books? These could include backyard reading gatherings, art projects, etc.

Please email Beth Crow at nativitypeacelibrary@gmail.com to respond to any or all the questions above. If you have any other comments or questions about the Peace Library, please feel free to share these as well.

Sincerely,

Beth Crow, Peace Library Coordinator
Peace Library Team: Anne Krouse, Pat McQueen, Carol Smith, Stephanie Sumner, and Lillis Ward

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Outreach

Nativity’s Peace Library More Then Just a Collection of Children’s Books

On Sunday, May 15, the Rev. Stephanie Allen, along with children present at church, blessed our newly opened Peace Library. Sponsored by Nativity’s Social Justice Ministry and through the donations of many in the church, we currently have ninety-nine books on our shelves. The Peace Library Team is deeply thankful for the support of all who have made this possible.
Now comes the real work—getting these books into the hands of our children and youth, to encourage honest conversations about history, race, and sexuality.  Each month in Glad Tidings (and on our website) the Peace Library Team will publish a book review with suggested questions and activities.  Jesus calls us as a faith community to step out of our comfort zones and broaden our understandings of “others” while recognizing God’s presence within us all. 
The Peace Library team has selected highly recommended, frequently award-winning books that highlight diversity, self-worth, and respect for others. Many of these books bring history to life in a manner inclusive of minority cultures and points of view. If you would like to recommend any books, please contact Beth Crow at nativitypeacelibrary@gmail.com.
You can view all our books in the Nativity Peace Library at https://www.librarycat.org/lib/NativityPeaceLibrary.
We will continue to updated our wish list through Quail Ridge.  Remember, you will receive a 21% discount if you enter the code NATIVITY22 .  Books purchased will be held for the Peace Library Team to pick up.  Nativity Peace Library Wish List: https://www.quailridgebooks.com/wishlist/2019.  

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Outreach

Our Refugee Family has a New Home!

The Mojadady family, mom, dad, and two boys, 5 and 8 will be moving into a clean, comfortably furnished apartment with a well-stocked pantry and a hot meal awaiting them any time now. 

I cannot thank you all enough for your support of this project that Outreach took on last year. Your donations of household items, cleaning supplies, toiletries, money, time, and the love behind it have made it all possible. 

Below is a summary of our day yesterday, submitted by Ailsa Tessier. We have also included pictures from Mari Borstelmann.

Hooray for our team!! A masterful effort was made today to get the apartment ready for our Afghan family. What would the day have been without a bit of drama?! It needed MAJOR cleaning to start with – good thing the furniture wasn’t there at 9 am. But oh wait, there’s no water. Reported it to headquarters, and onward we cleaned. Sounds of scrubbing and vacuuming and the smell of Clorox filled the air, and things began to sparkle. Dave Waechter and Dave Kerr came to the rescue for safety measures for the screen-less windows; smoke detector batteries checked; aircon filter checked. Still no furniture. Cleaning, cleaning, items sorted. Jersey Mike’s sandwiches and chips for lunch welcomed. Still no furniture, no water.

   12:30 – Green Chair arrives with the furniture! Two guys, a truck, boxes of beds, assorted stuff – and things began to take shape. The sofa was a very exciting part of the day – it would not go around the corners of the stairs. After much engineering discussion, eventually it was hoisted up over the third floor railing with Dave Kerr and Ailsa assisting – finally made it in. Yikes – kitchen crew soon find water gushing out from under the sink onto the floor…friendly plumber Allison Martin dives under the sink, turns the shut-off valves, stanching the flood. Dave steps in to help Lillis mop up gallons of the stuff. Another call to HQ – property management plumber explains that the pipes are disconnected and the City turned off the water BECAUSE the pipes were disconnected – or something like that. When the water came on, well, you see what happened! So. Finally, all is now mopped up, and apartment arranging continues. In case you’re wondering, beds in boxes are very cool, and easy to move around. Finally it seems that things have taken shape, as clean as we can make it, and a list of any remaining problems recorded. and recycling and trash taken out.

  As it turns out, the family MAY not be able to move in on Thursday, as they cannot legally move into a place without water. So we will wait to hear an update on when it’s fixed, and when they can move in. Pam Blackwood is working on the first night’s dinner, and it may have to be put in the freezer, depending on when the family can move in.

There will be pictures on Facebook soon. This was a heroic effort on everyone’s part – and that’s what we do at Nativity when someone is in need. Thanks to all for your cheerful and willing spirits!

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Outreach

Supporting Ukraine

Dave McKinnon

A couple of years ago, Nativity’s Outreach team started  allocating a part of its annual budget to support disasters such as hurricanes, floods and wildfires.  We made donations to the Episcopal Relief & Development (ERD) organization to ensure our donations were directed properly.  We now have a non-climate related disaster occurring in Ukraine, caused by Vladmir Putin.  This is a humanitarian disaster on a massive scale. The Outreach team has made a donation to ERD to be directed to support the displaced Ukrainian people.

ERD provides updates and here is an excerpt from an email received this week:

“We are supporting Action by Churches Together (ACT Alliance) as it works through ACT member Hungarian Interchurch Aid (HIA) and other local organizations to provide emergency assistance such as food, shelter, water and basic supplies to refugees and people displaced within Ukraine.

ACT Alliance is setting up similar support points at other border towns to assist people as they leave Ukraine. It is working through local partners to provide aid for refugees in Hungary, Romania, Slovakia and Poland.”

The number of displaced people is increasing rapidly with no end in sight.  Peoples’ homes have been totally destroyed so they will have nothing to come back to. If you are able, please help them out by donating through Episcopal Relief and Development.  Copy the link below and help make a difference

https://support.episcopalrelief.org/ukraineresponse?ID=220301DWMDS0100&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=fy22ukraine&utm_source=220301DWMDS0100
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Encouraging Notes for Haiti Reforestation Partnership

Want to Make Someone Smile in 2022?  Drop a card of encouragement for those in Haiti!

Our sisters and brothers in Haiti are going through a really hard time right now.  Our friends at Haiti Reforestation Partnership have communicated with us that not only are things challenging on the ground, but many feel “forgotten” by the outside world, especially as travel has become essentially non-existent.

Michael Anello, the Executive Director of Haiti Reforestation Partnership, will be in the United States mid-January through mid-February.  Let’s flood Michael with as many encouraging cards as possible to take back with him to distribute.  (You can even include a family picture so they can see our faces, if you’d like.)  With the hard work of 750 Haitian women and men, Haiti Reforestation Partnership plants roughly 500,000 trees per year – no matter what. They are investing in their future (our future) and are holding on to hope.  Let’s let them know that they are not alone.  We are thinking of them.  We are praying for them.  We are thankful for them.

Please use Google Translate to translate your simple message from English to Haitian Creole and then bring your cards to the church by January 20.

If you are unable to drop the cards or letters off at the church, please Email Becky Showalterfor pickup.

If you’d like to know more about Haiti Reforestation Partnership, check out this video – 30 Years of Reforestation Success – YouTube – or visit www.haitireforest.org.

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Glad Tidings Outreach

Afghan Refugee Resettlement

Cheryl Waechter

Louise Miller and I have now completed our training with the U.S. Committee for Refugees and Immigrants (USCRI) and we’re ready to go! Our area is expecting 500 individual Afghan refugees over the next 11 months. That translates to approximately 60-80 families.

Our original expectation was that we would have a specific family that we would “adopt” or sponsor. However, that will not be the case at this time. USCRI’s Covid protocols do not allow direct interaction of volunteers with refugee families.

Right now, we need volunteers to form teams that will set up apartments as families arrive or grocery shop and prepare a welcome meal for the day they move in.

Donations of gently used household furnishings, linens, kitchen pots and utensils, and any items that will help furnish an apartment are needed. The donations can be brought to The Green Chair Project, where the items will be stored, to be delivered to apartments as needed. Please see the list of accepted items below.

sofas and loveseats
upholstered chairs
dining tables and chairs
nightstands
dressers
coffee tables
lamps
decor items

dishware

eating utensils
kitchen utensils
small kitchen appliances
pots and pans
bedding
new bed pillows in original packaging
towels
shower curtains

Please call (919) 322-0474 to schedule pick-up for large items.

If you would like to help resettle refugee families or would like more information  please contact either Louise, at randrew.louise@gmail.com or Cheryl Waechter, at cherylw1127@outlook.com.

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Outreach

Leesville Elementary Backpack Program Gearing Up

Lillis Ward, Outreach Team

I am so excited to announce that Leesville Elementary School is gearing up to have the Pride Packs Program back in full swing this week.  They are restocking the shelves; the social worker is helping to identify children for the program, and plans are falling into place for a successful year. The PTA leader who is in charge this year said that they are heavily dependent on churches for monetary and food donations and hope we can pick up where we left off in March 2020. 55 children have already been identified as food insecure. Through your pledges and donations, the church Outreach Team was able to make a sizable monetary donation to help get the year started. 

So, Church of the Nativity, get ready! There will be a collection box in the Narthex of the church the 1st Sunday of each month. In addition, there will be a collection basket in Corlett Hall where donations can be dropped off at any time. Church volunteers will drop the food donations off to the school office the first week of the month and from there, school volunteers will assemble the backpacks for the students. Each backpack will contain 2 breakfasts 2 lunches, 2 suppers, and snacks to give the students enough food for the weekend. Foods purchased need to be individual food serving containers (no large boxes please). If you can find cans with pull top lids, that is helpful so children don’t have to struggle with a can opener. See the attached list for recommended items. Monetary donations need to be written to LES PTA.    

Here is a tangible way we can make a difference in the lives of our youngest learners. Please join us in the effort to curb hunger.

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Outreach Uncategorized

Caring for our Neighbors in Haiti

As I sat on my patio this morning drinking coffee and listening to the birds’ morning songs, my thoughts traveled across the waters to our brothers and sisters in Haiti. What a different morning they are experiencing from the one I woke to enjoy. One week ago on August 14 , their morning routine was shattered by a devastating 7.2 magnitude earthquake 80 miles east of their capital, Port-au-Prince. Similar in location and severity to the earthquake in 2010, gone were homes, grocery stores, hospitals, places of employment, and churches. Gone were lives of parents, children, and friends. Today they are faced with searching for loved ones, clean water to drink, food supplies, shelter, and first aid.      

Our church has a long-standing connection with Haiti in that we have financially supported the Haiti Reforestation Project for years. Members of our church have served on their board of directors and still do today. Because Haiti has a special place in our hearts, the Outreach Team has responded to this earthquake crisis by sending a donation from the Outreach budget to the Episcopal Relief and Development Fund. This 501(3)c non-profit has been in existence since 1940, when it was called the Presiding Bishop’s Fund with a mission to help refugees fleeing Europe during and after WWII. In the 80 years since, ERD has evolved and broadened its mission to include humanitarian aid, disaster relief, sustainable development, climate change, combating gender-based violence, and early childhood education. These efforts touch at least 3 million lives each year. If you are interested in helping ERD in their relief efforts in Haiti or to learn more about this organization, please visit their site here.  

Lillis Ward